I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and the situation was the same in my dream like in real life and he showed me there is a girl with him with black hair and her name was Barbara.. and somehow we met and i told him i don't want him to meet with her ever again but he just grabbed her hand and left me. Then i called him again and he was at an university with her and he said i should leave him and he just hung up
This dream may reflect feelings of insecurity, fear, and a lack of trust in your relationship with your boyfriend. The dream scenario being similar to real life suggests that these fears and concerns may be present in your waking life as well. The presence of the girl with black hair named Barbara could symbolize a perceived threat or competition for your boyfriend's attention or affection. The fact that he grabbed her hand and left you signifies your fear of losing him to this other person. The dream further highlights your attempts to communicate your concerns to your boyfriend and establish boundaries in the relationship. However, his unwillingness to comply with your wishes and his choice to leave you may signify a sense of betrayal or the feeling that he is not taking your concerns seriously. The setting of the university could represent a sense of intellectual or emotional growth, suggesting that this situation may be causing personal growth or introspection for you. The abrupt ending with him telling you to leave him and hanging up can symbolize the fear of abandonment or rejection in the relationship. Overall, this dream appears to reflect underlying feelings of insecurity, doubt, and a need for open communication within your relationship. It may be beneficial to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your concerns and fears to address any issues and maintain trust in the relationship.